Hey.
It's a shame when love is seen as a stigma. Someone coos over someone they have affections towards, and the majority of society immediately strips it of the purity that embodies it. It's not someone's beautiful expression of love, it's a naive, immature monologue of a childish "crush". If someone says to love someone after, say, a week-long relationship, it is dismissed instantly as "not knowing what they're talking about." Then again, I'm not one to say that the people accusing them of said "immaturities" are wrong, but who are we to tell them that they are wrong?
Admittedly, I'm one of those people that raise an eyebrow at the extreme form of the topic. Say you're a female friend of mine, and you've been dating this guy for a bit of a length of time now. (Define "length of time" on your own.) Tell me that you're a 15-year-old and your boyfriend has proposed to you. Tell me that you're absolutely prepared to bear his child and move in with him. Go and tell me he's an absolute angel, and there's nothing and no one that will make you happier, because you're blessed with knowing that this is your soul mate. Eyebrows shall rise with a passion.
I know, extreme. But let's try another approch. Let's examine me. I've been dating Phuc for.. ::checks calender:: 11 months and 11 days. 19 days before our one year. I'm going to pretend that Phuc isn't going to read this. I write "I<3Phuc" all over my agenda. God knows how much I daydream about him, and I am more than willing to go to a high place and scream at the top of my lungs how I feel about him. I often mention him in conversation, and I'm around him more than I am not, and during the times that I'm not around him, I miss him. It is seriously difficult to fight the urge to tell some random anecdote about him to my parents, seeing as he's such a major part of my day, and whenever I find an opening to mention him in a conversation, I seriously try to. I want him happy, and seeing as I now have no money, I am going on the theory that he is happy being around me. Alas, I am around him often. (Although it does make me happy, too. Win-win.)
So, who here found all that lame?
>_>; I think I did. ya srsly.
NOW, to be completely honest, I've COMPLETELY forgotten where I'm going with this. I'm going to stop before I get ahead of myself and become extremely confusing. I'm at that point in which I don't know how to put ideas in words, and I'm hoping you all know what I mean.
Mediocre blog? Yes. Go me.
Today's lesson really bad "yo momma" joke: Yo momma so thirsty, she drank all the juice in the fridge, and the kids were all "Where all the juice go, momma?" and she said, "I DRANK IT." because she DID!
some hearts just get lucky sometimes
Bye for now.