You look at yourself differently when seen through the eyes of a friend, an enemy, a lover.  I've now realized that I've been seen through all three.  I've seen all three. 

When perfection is flawed, the "everything" takes everyone by the throat.

This is for you.

Perfect: (adj) 1. Complete. 2. Flawless.

Completion is flawless.  Completion is perfection.  The person who finally is complete.. is perfect.

It all makes sense.